Monthly Archives: November 2010

Recollections : Thanksgiving Hijinks

bunch of Craddock kidsbunch of Craddock kids
As children there was never a day when my brothers and myself came near starvation but there were often times when our food was rationed and perhaps not what we would have chosen if we had a choice but we ate every day. My dad worked long hard hours to  provide for us.  His love of hunting and fishing had a twofold purpose and one of those was to provide food. Fish, rabbit and squirrel were a welcome supplement on our dining table. There were no in between meal snacks at our home and Mom didn’t have to call twice when the meal was ready.  So Thanksgiving dinner was such a treat for us and we looked forward to this eagerly.

One Thanksgiving, Mom had prepared some of the food, the turkey was ready but the dressing and accessories wasn’t and the jello that we always looked forward to had jelled in the back room. It was cold in there as Mom kept a blanket hanging over the door until bedtime to help keep the rest of the house warm. The meal was awaiting the final preparations.

For some reason Mom and Dad had somewhere to go that Thanksgiving morning and gave a warning before they left to stay out of the food until they returned. An hour or two passed and some of us decided that if we took a small piece of the turkey it would not be noticed, a short while later we had another and somehow the jello became incorporated into the scheme. This went on for several rounds and before it was over and Mom and Dad returned the turkey looked like it had been without food itself for a long time. You could even see it’s bones.  The jello and pies had dips and holes throughout. Dinner was wrecked and we were scared.

Showtime, Mom and Dad were back, Mom had this look of disbelief on her face and Dad just said, ”ok, line up”. While he went for the razor strap we did just that, dreading what was coming. You know I can’t for the life of me remember if that threat was carried through or not and I am inclined to believe that it didn’t.  I think Dad may have given us a pardon because once Dad did give me a switching and it wasn’t something you would forget. That Thanksgiving Day will always be remembered. I was probably around 6 and I can’t remember what brothers were in this with me, probably Paul, David and maybe JW, we sort of hung out together and got into messes like that often.

Ada Craddock Morris


This is another jewel from Ada Morris. I can only imagine the look on Grandpa Van and Grandma Lucille’s face when they returned, but honestly knowing my aunts and uncles, it seems that they should have known better. I look forward to hearing about all of your Thanksgivings adventures this year. As always you can tell us all about it by emailing to connection@craddock.org.

Craddock Cookbook: Better Than Fruit Salad

Better Than Fruit Salad

  • 1 can of cherry pie filling
  • 1 can of crushed pineapple
  • 1 can of sweetened condensed milk
  • 1/2 cup of chopped nuts
  • 1 large container of Cool Whip

Dump all the ingredients into a bowl. Mix and Chill for 2 hours

Submitted by Betty June (Jones) Craddock

Ramblin’ Roses Vol. 1 Issue 3

THE RAMBLIN’ ROSES

Craddock Connection Ladies

by  Ada Morris

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The November bouquet consisting of BJ Craddock , host , Betty Craddock, Debbie Craddock, Samie Craddock, Heidi Dent and Ada Morris gathered at my home around 10:15 AM with the first bud being Betty and the faded rose (last to arrive) being Debbie. We encountered a thorn when Debbie refused to take a group picture before our departure, she always gives us a hard time over pictures.  We threatened her but to no avail, her photo with the group was grafted in. We really missed our sister rose, Sue Upchurch, and hope to have her with us again in December.

With all of that business taken care of we rambled north to Yukon.  Debbie drove us in Samie’s van and having complete confidence in Deb’s ability to get us safely to our destination, we enjoyed relaxation and conversation. We always have much to talk about, catching up on the latest that might have been overlooked on Facebook, ha! Having intentions to dine at a Mexican Restaurant, Debbie had coupons to purchase 1 entree at regular price and the next one for half price. BJ being the thoughtful person that she is brought along a little pair of scissors to clip the coupons. After arriving at the restaurant we decided that it didn’t look that well and since it was noon time and they had few customers that maybe it was not a good place to eat so we headed out for Alfredo’s.  Debbie tried to get them to take the coupons for the other restaurant but it was no use, we all had to pay full price for our meal. It was a good one though.  After the meal we took Heidi to her sister’s home in Yukon to spend a couple of days with her.

After our meal we stopped at Kohl’s for awhile and did some shopping. Someone suggested Starbucks and though I’m not a devoted fan I really enjoyed the vanilla latte. Heading home was a pleasant ride as always when you’re in good company.

I trust we all had a good time and I for one am looking forward to next month.

Recollections: Memorial to Fay Craddock Finley

Aunt Fay always smilingAunt Fay always smiling
Fay Finley was no ordinary mother or grandmother. She was an extraordinary mother, grandmother, great grandmother, great great grandmother, aunt, and friend. So many friends have told us the last couple of days how mother would say the words “I love you” and how special she was to them.

Fay was born during the time of World War I, lived through World War II, the Korean War, the Vietnam Conflict, Desert Storm and now the three years of war in Iraq. Both of her sons served in the military and she also has several great-grandchildren currently in military service. Fay did not wait until everything was right in the world to experience joy, love and laughter. If she had, we would not have these special funny, sweet memories of her.

Anyone who knew Fay Finley knew her as a “GO GETTER!” One day when Fay was 13 years old she was leaving the Prairie View Missionary Baptist Church and she overheard several boys in a discussion about a horse one of them had. The horse’s owner didn’t think anyone of his friends could ride the horse without being thrown off. She promptly told those gathered that she could ride the horse but wanted to know what the prize was. After digging in their pockets the boys gathered 37 cents for the prize money. Fay rode the horse but paid dearly with blood all over her only Sunday dress. After her mother was told about this episode she insisted Fay return the money and be punished. Her dad intervened and thought she should be allowed to keep the money, which she did; but was still punished by Grandma Susie.

She was an excellent basketball player when she was in high school and was an all-state player both as a freshman and also as a sophomore with a 25+ scoring average. Fay supported her family in all activities, whether they were showing animals at a livestock show, playing basketball, in a piano recital or Bible School program. She’s even been known to catch the eye of a referee if he made a call against Verden that she disagreed with.

Once Fay’s children were playing outside and Ansel rigged up the cotton scales, used in the cotton field to weigh cotton as the workers emptied their sacks into the wagon. He tied it with baling wire and weighed his brother and two sisters. When Fay came out to check on the children, they insisted she be weighed. As she grabbed the scales and lifted her feet off the ground the scales crashed down onto her head, the blood gushed and Fay was knocked unconscious. The four kids thought they had killed her, but Ansel ran to get the neighbor, Alfred Reese and when Fay opened her eyes again he was staring down at her and she quickly assured him she was just fine. She finally raised up, crawled a few feet and passed out again. Eventually she made it to the house and cleaned the gash and assured the kids she would be alright (although she was a little mad).

Classmates of Fay’s four children loved to spend time with the Finley family. There was always fun, laughter and GOOD FOOD! Sometimes Rosalee’s entire basketball team would gather for a meal before a game.

All ten of her grandchildren have special memories of times spent with “Grandma Fay.” She would load them all in the pick­up, drive north of Verden and give driving lessons including driving over the dam with the others hanging off the tailgate. Fortunately there were no serious mishaps, but the possibilities would increase when Debra went off the road or Bret accelerated. No matter who drove, the others always pointed out that the driver was “Off the Road!” As the student driver followed Grandma Fay’s direction, he or she had nine critics also giving directions. There were no parents or adults allowed on these “driving lesson” trips for fear of heart failure for the parents.

She was also an excellent “story teller” and could make her childhood and motherhood memories and stories into the most exciting tales. Sometimes after a scary ghost story, all ten grandchildren crowded in so close they were all ten touching her. She didn’t really enjoy all ten touching her at once! One such time was when she promised a night at the haunted house north of Chickasha Lake, near Fairview grade school, where she and Aubrey attended school as children. Anticipation was high and the day finally arrived. Everyone loaded into the pickup and off they went on the adventure of a lifetime. As the night progressed, the adventure became more than intense. She told the kids to look for hidden clues in the woods (some of the kids expecting to find long­ lost severed limbs) and the stories got scarier so they all decided they better go back into Verden and check on Grand-dad Aubrey (you know, he might be lonely).

Fay inspired, motivated and challenged all whose lives touched hers to be the very best they could be. When the nieces and nephews lost their parents, Aunt Fay took over that roll and they ALL cherished her and the bond has never been broken. All of these nieces, nephews and their children still bask in this bond. Fay enjoyed her daily lunches at the Senior Center in Verden and those of you who were there and waited on her “hand and foot” ­we thank you! She especially looked forward to the Wednesday Bingo games (though she usually gave her winnings to the Grands (grandkids). She taught Sunday School classes for many years and I know you’ll agree that her special gift from God was to ENCOURAGE and LOVE everyone! She played the piano by ear and has played at many church services and sang at many funerals, as well as shared food anytime there was a need. She was an avid quilter and left more than 30 hand-made quilts to loved ones. She loved the members of all the churches in Verden and was first and foremost a Christian. She used to say she was a member of the Baptist Church and the human race and that’s all she needed; and as all of you know she was a VIBRANT & ACTIVE participant of the Baptist Church and the human race whether she was teaching the word of God or portraying Minnie Pearl!

Everyone who knew Fay Finley will miss her and be a better person for having known her.


The proceeding was collaboratively written by Fay’s children and grandchildren. It was read at her funeral by her grand daughter Debbie Upchurch Zamarripa. I think I should add to this that Aunt Fay, as I knew her, had a knack for making people feel loved. I am the son of her brother’s ninth son. I am one of countless grandchildren, not of hers but of her brothers, yet every time I ever saw her she remembered everything about me, my wife and children. I was always amazed by that. Did she have a photographic memory or did she just love her family that much? I like to believe the latter and I don’t think I’m a special case either. I would bet that every one of my cousins remember it the same way.

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Craddock Cookbook : Mississippi Mud Cake

Mississippi Mud Cake

  • 2 sticks melted margarine
  • 1 1/2 cup flour
  • 2 cups of sugar
  • 4 eggs
  • 1 teaspoon of vanilla
  • 4 ounces of coconut
  • 1 1/4 cups of pecans
  • 2 tablespoons of cocoa

icing:

  • 1 large jar of marshmallow cream
  • 1 pound of confectioners sugar
  • 1/3 cup of cocoa
  • 1/2 cup of melted margarine
  • 1 teaspoon of vanilla

To make the cake, stir together sugar, cocoa, and flour. Add eggs, margarine, coconut, pecans, and vanilla. Pour into a greased and floured 9X13 inch pan. (Use flour sparingly in pan or substitute sprinkle of cocoa) Bake at 350 degrees until done. Do not overcook – cake will be moist like brownies. Cool completely. Spread marshmallow cream on cake.

Mix the rest of the icing ingredients and spread over marshmallow cream. You may use half of the pecans for cake and the rest in icing if preferred.

Recipe requested by my niece, Glenda Craddock

Submitted by Ada Craddock Morris, Binger, Ok

Craddock Cookbook: Pumpkin Roll

Just in time for the holidays, I bring you the best Thanksgiving dessert known to man… The Pumpkin Roll. This recipe was submitted to the Cookbook by Viola Parham Craddock. Be sure to try this one out I PROMISE you won't regret it.


Pumpkin Roll

  • 3 eggs
  • 1 cup of sugar
  • 2/3 cup of pumpkin
  • 1 teaspoon of lemon juice
  • 3/4 cup of flour
  • 1 teaspoon of baking powder 
  • 1/2 teaspoon of salt
  • 1/2 teaspoon of nutmeg
  • 1/2 teaspoon of ginger
  • 1 teaspoon of cinnamon
  • 1 cup of chopped nuts (optional) – (Erik's comments — not really optional imo)
  • 1 cup of powdered sugar
  • 4 tablespoons of butter
  • 1 teaspoon of vanilla

Beat eggs 5 minutes. Add sugar, pumpkin, and lemon juice and mix. Set aside.

Add flour, baking powder, salt and spices and mix with first ingredients.

Grease and flour cookie sheet. Pour batter in and sprinkle nuts over batter.

Bake at 375 degrees for 15 minutes. 

Sprinkle powdered sugar on dish towel. Turn cake out on towel and roll cake and towel together.

Let cool

Unroll cake and spread with mixture of 1 cup powdered sugar, 6 ounces of cream cheese, 4 tablespoons of butter and 1 teaspoon vanilla.

Roll back up and refrigerate.

Can be frozen

Viola Parham Craddock


Did I mention that this is the best holiday dessert that has ever existed? Let me know what you think of this recipe. Also I'd love to hear any recipes that you might have. Email me at connection@craddock.org with yours.

Recollections: Shot Day

JW and Viola CraddockJW and Viola Craddock
If you ask Lonnie Craddock, son of Van and Lucille, about his mother the first word that pops out is ornery. He seems to think she had that market cornered but I would have to disagree as she seemed to have passed that particular trait to ALL of her children 10 fold.

As I said before, ornery was passed down ten fold and I want to share one of the orneriest stories ever told. I have qualms about writing about living relatives so I’m going to just call him “unc”. I share this because it had a real impact on my life and probably about 50 other children. I thought it was mean but Grandma assured me it was just ornery. I’m not sure where one line begins and the other ends.

When I was little things were a lot different. They had what they called a shot clinic. You didn’t need a bunch of paperwork or appointments. You just took your crying kids and their shot records and stood in line with 50 other crying kids waiting for them to herd you down the hall like cattle in a chute. So my mom took took Sheri, Gayle, me and Leonard to shot day and needed help so I guess she asked “unc”, she really should have known better. Anyway, all these kids were squalling and bawling and no one could quiet us so when the nurse came in she told us all “well look! This mans here to get shots and he’s not crying, are you”?  “No” he tells her grinning “yall listen, I’ll tell ya if it hurts.” and disappears down the hall with her. We were very quiet… listening… all of a sudden the most horrifying, blood curdling scream I have ever heard, came down that hall. The chute seemed to open, the line dissolved and 50 terrified children torpedoed into 100 directions.

I’ve never seen so many mad women in one building. It took so long to catch us we didn’t get shots that day but “unc” sure got his butt gnawed on all the way home. I bet to this day none of those traumatized children have forgotten it but I bet Unc has. He laughed all the way home.

Judy Craddock Smith


No one should read into the picture I added above. It is merely a random selection of one of Judy’s 10 uncles on her father’s side. “Unc” could be anyone of them. haha

Please let Judy know how much you enjoy her stories. Also please send more of your stories, We are starting to run out. You send them and I’ll post em. Email your story to connection@craddock.org to help keep this website running.

Recollections: The Job

Larry Craddock and family mid 70'sLarry Craddock and family mid 70's
I loved contract cable splicing. I enjoyed the work, the travel, and the sense of freedom that came from knowing I could find work in almost any part of the country whenever I wanted but it had its drawbacks too. Samie and I were both constantly homesick and then when Erik was old enough to attend school we found ourselves moving him in and out of different schools too often. One day we just decided that if I had to dig ditches for a living we were moving home. So we did. Erik was 6, Stephanie was 4 and Samie was pregnant with Nathan. That was the spring of 1980.

We moved back to Anadarko, Oklahoma and I found a contract cable splicing job in the Texas panhandle close enough to drive home on the weekends. So I stayed in a motel through the week and came home on weekends but what I really wanted was a job where I could stay home. I looked and would have settled for less but what I really wanted was a job at Western Farmers Electric Cooperative. It seemed like, and turned out to be, the best organization in the area. Harold Todd, a good friend, worked there and encouraged me to apply. I had actually turned in an application there years earlier but never heard back from them. Nevertheless, after Harold’s encouragement I decided to try again.

A few years earlier I had worked a short stint for the local cable tv company where I added tower climbing to my repertoire and decided that maybe that and my cable splicing experience could somehow get me on in whatever department was responsible for such things.

Fortunately, Harold worked in the print shop, which at that time was located directly across the hall from the communications department. One day he arranged to let me in the back door and introduced me to the manager of the communcations department. We talked for a few minutes and I told him I was interested in working there and what my background was. They were in a growth period and hiring but he really didn’t have an opening. However, he made an opening for a telecommunications support mechanic and posted the job. The job title turned out to be code for someone who would change tower lights, repair or replace microwave building window air conditioners, clean battery connections, sweep floors … you got it … whatever needed done.

I submitted a truthful but unimpressive application. The real truth is that I was a high school graduate with an undesirable discharge from the U.S. Army and very few directly applicable skills. Everyone involved with hiring was ex-military and the division manager was a WWII P.O.W. It didn’t look good :) I talked with the dept manager again and he was very honest with me. He told me he liked me, thought I would probably do a good job and would like to hire me but the odds were stacked against me. I listened to every word he said but something clicked inside and believing … no actually ‘knowing’ … that job was mine was the easiest thing I’ve ever done.

I showed up at their doorstep every week and made sure they knew I was interested and I wasn’t going away. They finally got around to interviewing for the job and the dept manager called me at home to tell me not to get my hopes up; there wasn’t much chance I would get the job. I remember it like it was yesterday. Samie was sitting on the couch hearing only what little she could of my end of the conversation. When I hung  the phone up she asked me what he said and I responded with “I’m getting the job.” I wasn’t lying and I wasn’t practicing positive speech … I was just repeating what I already knew in my heart.

During the conversation I had told him I wanted an interview if that was possible. I don’t know what he did to make that happen but it happened. When the time came I knew I had to be completely transparent so I made no excuses for my past. I told them the truth … I told them I had no excuses and if given the opportunity to do it over there were lots of things I’d change but I knew that opportunity would never come. I told them that through a work God had started in me I was no longer that person. They listened but the looks on their faces let me know they were just being polite. That is until I pulled them down to my level … after my confession I asked them to look at their own pasts and ask themselves if there weren’t things they’d like to have a chance to change. Then I told them they didn’t need to answer because I already knew there were. My words weren’t judgmental … I was just trying to help them understand that we’re all human and sometimes all a person needs is another chance.

I hope this doesn’t sound arrogant but a week later I wasn’t even surprised when they called and told Samie I had the job. I have a little trouble with people always playing the “God told me” card and I rarely use it so bear with me. No, I didn’t hear an audible voice, but somehow I knew that job was mine from the beginning. During that process ‘faith’ was redefined for me. There was no spiritual grunting, no mental mantra chanting, no determined exercise of my will … He just placed it in my heart that the job was mine and it was the easiest thing in the world to believe Him.

I started work for Western Farmers Electric Cooperative on May 13, 1980 making just over $7 / hour. That seems like last week but it’s now been over 30 years and I’m almost embarrassed about my pay. I’m a salaried professional doing a job I absolutely love. I’m anxious to get to work every day. And I’m thankful … I’m thankful to WFEC for allowing me the latitude to carve out my own career; I’m thankful for the freedom this country affords us to recover from egregious errors if we just try; and most of all I’m thankful to God for the endless work of making us better people.

Larry Craddock

11/1/2010